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Uniform Camp 2008

La la la..i went to the Uniform Camp organized by the Boys' Brigade and Girls' Brigade this year from the 26th till 27th of May. The camp was really great. I have dreamed of joining this camp since a long time ago although i had manage to do so last year but that was different because back then,i was an officer for the uniform camp then. So,this can be my first time joining this camp as a participant for the Prefect Group. We got permission from our Prefects' adviser,Mr.Wong. He gave us the green light and tell us that if we want to join in the camp,we must achieve the best. So,i gather the 16 people for the prefect team. Gathering people was never easy because some might be in at one day and then out another day. Until the last day before the camp,there were still changes. But then,the good news is that we manage to form a true team of 16 members,8 zone leaders(Allen Yong,Sien Ding,Tien Yong,Sing Teck,Xuan Yuan,Andy Ko,Bernard Chieng,Jin Mei) and another 8 prefects(Tiong …

当他不再爱你的时候。。。。。。

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当他不再爱你的时候,不要再给他打电话。你的一句我想你,只能换来他的沉默。比沉默更让你难过的是,他说---那有什么办法呢。

  当他不再爱你的时候,不要再给他发e-mail,不要再试图用文字唤起他的回忆,打动他的心,如果你的人不能打动他,那么即使你用文字感动他一回,换来片刻温存,温存过后的大片空白只能让你更加难过。

  当他不再爱你的时候,不要再关注他的生活,不要再关心他的一举一动。他的生活就是他的生活,你的生活也只属于你。如果不需要分享,那么就独自承担悲欢。

  当他不再爱你的时候,不要勉强自己出现在有他的场合,不需要在热闹的人群里被迫伪装你的不在乎。即使选择回避,也绝不是软弱,如果可以,选择平静的寂寞,让自己的伤口慢慢愈合。

  当他不再爱你的时候,不要幻想你可以在他心里留下一滴泪。即使有一瞬间他被你的眼泪打动,只要他不再爱你,他被你打动的时间绝不会比你流泪的时间长。

  当他不再爱你的时候,别去怨恨,也别去问他,也别问自己,为什么他会这么绝情,为什么他可以这么快就忘掉。甚至怀疑他根本就没有喜欢过你,而一切仿佛只是一场骗局。

  当他不再爱你的时候,读书是转移疼痛最好的办法。不要纵容自己喝酒,抽烟。即使你再痛,也不要给自己借口放纵。

  当他不再爱你的时候,不要让眼泪淹没了你曾经灿烂的笑容,你还是原来那个可爱的你。

  当他不再爱你的时候,相信我,所有的一切,都有风淡云清的一天,总有一天,你看到他,就像看到一张桌子那么简单。因为从失恋中走出来的,有你,也有我!

Haha..so,what's the point?

I am in a deep dilemma right now..the choices given to me is so hard tat i could hardly make my decision..is my decision right or wrong depends on who or even what? I really dun know what to do.. Anyway,if u r reading this..this does only apply to you but also to anyone in the world who wanna be successful in doing something which u like.. I love this and that but sometimes this and that are really really not good enough for me..whether or not the thing is for me or not is not for me to decide..So,do i look like i dun understand or i dun wanna understand? Who can tell me if I m right or wrong? Who can judge me? Who can give me the best possible answer? Who is the one most suitable to me? Can our different background determine everything? Can the World be so cruel? Can i do anything to change this cruel fate? Am i bringing myself into another big trouble? What's wrong with this World? Or is the world really turning upside down these days? I m moving towards a hole which the deepnes…